I have a friend who constantly questions love, she wrote, "but if we were meant to be together, shouldn’t i fall for him hard no matter what the circumstances are, like romeo and juliet? isn’t that what love does to people, according to people - making irrational decisions? or on the contrary, do i just like him because there’s this big obstacle that is stimulating my competitive side to like him? or am i too old and wise to do that? or simply i don’t like him that much?"

It made me think. My conclusion: Love just happens. There is no reason or rationale behind it, it simply, is.